Understanding yourself

What is said, and what is underneath.

Studies of the sentences people offer long before they can name what is happening. Starting points for reading, never a diagnosis.

Paper artwork: An unfinished blank manuscript with a red pencil outside a closed Banglabazar print shop

N° 25

Creative block

“Six weeks to the Boi Mela. The page is still blank.”

When the words stop coming, it may be an ordinary pause, or a sign of depression or anxiety. How to tell, and what helps.

Paper artwork: parcels and folded saris stacked inside a wardrobe

N° 26

Compulsive buying

“The parcels come while everyone’s at work.”

Buying that brings a moment of relief, then guilt, debt and secrecy. Compulsive buying is recognised by doctors, and therapy can help.

Paper artwork: A quiet Mohammadpur kitchen at night, refrigerator light falling on one small dish of shemai

N° 27

Binge eating disorder

“I eat standing at the fridge after everyone’s asleep.”

Repeated episodes of eating large amounts with a loss of control, then shame. More common than many think, and treatable with focused therapy.

Paper artwork: An open suitcase and graduation portrait inside a Dhanmondi home, with a green CNG passing outside

N° 28

Coming home: reverse culture shock

“I came home from London. Now I belong nowhere.”

Coming home after years abroad can be harder than leaving. Feeling out of place is common; when it turns into lasting low mood, help is there.