Understanding yourself

What is said, and what is underneath.

Studies of the sentences people offer long before they can name what is happening. Starting points for reading, never a diagnosis.

Conceptual paper artwork: Unlabelled export-route map whose fine line loops back across itself.

N° 01

Generalised anxiety

“I’ve always been a worrier.”

The working day ends. The thinking does not.

Conceptual paper artwork: Three blank invitation cards set apart like islands; one muted saffron edge.

N° 02

Social anxiety

“I’m not much of a people person.”

Invitations declined in advance. What if being yourself felt easier?

Conceptual paper artwork: Red-carpet strip folded into a tight accordion beneath an unmarked plinth.

N° 03

Panic attacks

“I thought I was having a heart attack.”

The emergency doctor said the heart was fine. The fear was real, and it has a name.

Conceptual paper artwork: House key centred within precisely nested blank paper frames.

N° 04

Obsessive compulsive disorder

“I know it is locked. I check it anyway.”

The thought arrives uninvited and will not leave until the ritual is done. Then it comes back.

Conceptual paper artwork: Blank boarding pass under a glass aircraft window; route line stops short.

N° 05

Specific phobia

“I’ll drive to Chattogram. I always do.”

A fear far bigger than the danger, and a life arranged around it. Phobias respond well to treatment, sometimes in a single long session.

Conceptual paper artwork: Open blank clapperboard suspended above one precise pool of stage light.

N° 06

Performance anxiety

“Lights, camera, action, and my mind goes blank.”

Under the lights, on the stage, in front of the lens. Performance anxiety is common, even among the most accomplished artists, and it can be treated.

Conceptual paper artwork: Slate carry-on case under ivory cloud planes with three misaligned brass time arcs.

N° 07

Jet lag, brain fog and travel anxiety

“I woke up and didn’t know which city I was in.”

Constant travel scrambles the body clock. When the fog does not lift between trips and the hotel rooms start to feel lonely, it is worth more than a strong coffee.

Conceptual paper artwork: Porcelain clinic basin seen from above; translucent water rings converge on one point.

N° 08

OCD: washing and contamination

“I wash until my hands bleed, and they still feel dirty.”

Fear of germs, dirt or disease that no amount of washing can settle. A common form of OCD, and a treatable one.

A loose oxblood thread lifts above a worn indigo-and-red woven cloth fragment against warm paper.

N° 09

OCD: intrusive thoughts

“What if I hurt someone? I would never. So why do I think it?”

Unwanted thoughts about harm, sex or religion that horrify the person having them. They are OCD, not desire, and they can be treated.

Conceptual paper artwork: Blank glass phone screen encircled by expanding slate paper rings around a blue point.

N° 10

Health anxiety

“This headache must be a tumour. I’m sure of it.”

A constant fear of serious illness that normal tests cannot settle. Searching symptoms online makes it worse; therapy helps.

Conceptual paper artwork: Folded Eid salwar kameez inside softly misregistered paper outlines that do not agree.

N° 11

Body dysmorphic disorder

“The new kameez looked perfect. I looked wrong in it.”

Hours lost to a flaw others cannot see. Cosmetic procedures rarely help; specific therapy does.

Conceptual paper artwork: Admission-coaching papers compressed into hourglass by a broad paper band.

N° 12

Exam pressure

“If I don’t get into medical, my life is over.”

SSC, HSC, O levels, admission tests: the pressure on Bangladeshi students is immense. Stress is normal; despair is not, and it needs help.

Paper artwork: Jannat standing apart from relatives at an Eid gathering in an Elephant Road flat

N° 13

Family pressure to marry

“Every dawat, the same question about my biye.”

When every family gathering turns into a question about marriage, the pressure can become anxiety. You can protect your peace without cutting off family.

Paper artwork: A mother waiting on a Malibagh apartment stair landing above a rain-lit gate

N° 14

Generalised anxiety: worry about family

“If she’s ten minutes late, I’ve already imagined the worst.”

When worry about the people you love never switches off, it may be generalised anxiety disorder. It is common, and therapy helps.

Paper artwork: rows of empty school desks in soft light

N° 15

School refusal

“Every school morning, a stomach ache. Fridays, she’s fine.”

When a child is too distressed to go to school, the stomach aches are real and anxiety is often underneath. A planned, gradual return can help.

Paper artwork: an open wallet, a few coins and an empty tin on a table

N° 16

Money worries and debt

“The EMI is due on the fifth. The salary comes on the tenth.”

Debt and money worries are closely linked with anxiety and depression. How couples can talk about it, and when the strain needs care.

Paper artwork: a glowing laptop beside a birthday cake with a single candle on a table at night

N° 17

Always on: work messages after hours

“My boss’s WhatsApps come at midnight.”

When work messages arrive at midnight, the mind never clocks off. Why switching off matters for mental health, and how to draw a line.

Paper artwork: a long empty exam table with pencils, a watch and a rolled certificate

N° 18

Test anxiety in adults

“I know the answers. In the viva board, they vanish.”

When fear in an exam or interview wipes the mind blank. Test anxiety in adults, why it happens, and the therapies with the most support.

Paper artwork: An empty Mirpur cricket crease seen through practice netting, stumps at the far end

N° 19

Performance anxiety in sport

“In the nets I hit everything. In a match, I freeze.”

Some athletes play freely in practice and freeze when it counts. What competitive anxiety is, how common mental health symptoms are in sport, and what helps.

Paper artwork: a press pass and laptop on a crumpled sheet, red threads crossing the screen

N° 20

Online harassment of journalists

“Every time I publish, my inbox fills with threats.”

Threats and abuse after every story can wear down even a seasoned reporter. Anxiety and trauma symptoms are common, and they are treatable.

Paper artwork: a radio on a ledge before a hazy city at dawn

N° 21

News anxiety and doomscrolling

“One more headline, and then I’ll sleep.”

Scrolling through bad news late at night can feed worry and steal sleep. Here is what research shows, and what helps.

Paper artwork: a young man sitting on the floor beside an acoustic guitar, a red sun behind him

N° 22

Pressure after success

“The first song went viral. Everyone’s waiting for the second.”

Sudden success can bring stage fright, self-doubt and a fear of never matching it. Performance anxiety is common, and therapy can help.

Paper artwork: mist over green hills at dawn seen from a wooden balcony

N° 23

Fear of missing out (FOMO)

“Everyone’s in Sajek this weekend. Except me.”

The anxious sense that everyone else is having a better time, fed by stories and feeds. What it is, and when it becomes a problem.

Paper artwork: two threads, red and blue, tangled into a knot

N° 24

Relationship OCD

“I love him. But what if I don’t?”

Endless doubt about whether you love your partner, or whether they are right for you, can be a form of OCD. Checking makes it louder.