Understanding yourself

What is said, and what is underneath.

Studies of the sentences people offer long before they can name what is happening. Starting points for reading, never a diagnosis.

Conceptual paper artwork: Blank glass phone screen encircled by expanding slate paper rings around a blue point.

N° 49

Health anxiety

“This headache must be a tumour. I’m sure of it.”

A constant fear of serious illness that normal tests cannot settle. Searching symptoms online makes it worse; therapy helps.

Conceptual paper artwork: Closed revision notebook under loose slate tiles, one tile quietly out of alignment.

N° 50

Early signs of psychosis

“He’s not himself. He thinks his friends are plotting.”

Psychosis often begins quietly in the late teens or twenties. Early treatment is linked to better outcomes.

Conceptual paper artwork: Dhaka rooftop water tank casts several soft, offset shadows on still navy plane.

N° 51

Cannabis and drug-induced psychosis

“It was just ganja, every evening. Then the voices started.”

Daily cannabis and stimulants such as yaba can trigger psychosis. Stopping and treatment help.

Conceptual paper artwork: Brass contractor's square across blank phone on tracing paper, arms point to open margins.

N° 52

Delusional disorder

“She is seeing someone. I know it. I have proof.”

A fixed false belief, such as a partner’s infidelity, held with total certainty despite all evidence. Treatment protects everyone.

Conceptual paper artwork: Paper mobile above spare cradle-shaped frame; small moons gently slip from orbit.

N° 53

Postpartum psychosis

“Ten days after the birth, she wasn’t making sense.”

A rare but serious emergency after childbirth. With fast treatment, recovery is common.

Conceptual paper artwork: Two uneven slate tiles stack; lower one quietly bears the upper's weight.

N° 54

Supporting a relative with psychosis

“My brother is ill, and nobody tells us what to do.”

Families carry much of the care for serious mental illness. Family work can help the patient and the people who love them.

Conceptual paper artwork: Film reel unspools into folded square; projection window fades into paper.

N° 55

Depression in later life

“At my age, what is there to be happy about?”

Depression is not a normal part of growing old. It is common, often missed, and treatable.

Conceptual paper artwork: Chalkboard grid of physics-like relations interrupted by one clean empty square.

N° 56

Mild memory problems

“I used to remember every formula. Now I lose words.”

Not every memory lapse is dementia. Assessment finds treatable causes, and nearly half of dementia cases may be linked to factors we can change.

Conceptual paper artwork: House key across two slightly misaligned floor plans; one doorway appears twice.

N° 57

Caring for a parent with dementia

“Ammu doesn’t know me some days. I still have to be there.”

Dementia care falls mostly on families. Support for carers can protect their health and improve care at home.

Conceptual paper artwork: Single tea glass at far end of broad table; three window cutouts along far edge.

N° 58

Loneliness

“The children are abroad. The phone rings on Sundays.”

Loneliness affects one in six people and is linked to poorer health as well as unhappiness. Connection can be rebuilt.

Conceptual paper artwork: Brass film reel turns outward in a loose loop stopping just short of closing.

N° 59

Alcohol use disorder

“Just two pegs at the club. Then four.”

Drinking that has quietly become a need. Stopping heavy drinking safely can need medical care, and recovery is common.

Conceptual paper artwork: Newsroom proof sheet with perforations opening into a broad unmarked margin.

N° 60

Smoking and nicotine

“I’ll quit after Eid. I said that last Eid too.”

In 2017, over a third of adults in Bangladesh used tobacco. Quitting is hard, and more likely with support.

Conceptual paper artwork: Muted brass taka token at edge of paper football pitch; field lines funnel toward rim.

N° 61

Online betting and gambling

“One more match and I’ll win it all back.”

Betting apps turn every cricket match into a stake. Gambling disorder is a recognised condition, and it is treatable.

Conceptual paper artwork: Charging cable coils around dawn-coloured paper sun; closed course notebook beyond loop.

N° 62

Gaming and phone overuse

“I’ll stop after this match. It’s 4am.”

Gaming disorder is a WHO diagnosis. When games or scrolling take over sleep, study and life, help can reset the balance.

Conceptual paper artwork: Bedside clock within concentric paper bands of night; outer band opens to dawn.

N° 63

Dependence on sleeping pills

“I can’t sleep a single night without my tablet.”

Sedatives bought without a prescription can lead to dependence. Stopping safely needs a gradual, medical plan.

Conceptual paper artwork: Folded cotton sleeve with a seam gently repaired in pale thread, generous ivory space.

N° 64

Self-harm

“It’s the only thing that makes the noise stop.”

Self-harm is a sign of overwhelming pain, not attention-seeking. With understanding and the right help, many people find other ways through.

Conceptual paper artwork: Import ledger grid folds one ruled line back, leaving a clear route to page edge.

N° 65

Paranoid personality disorder

“Everyone wants something from me. I trust no one.”

A long-standing pattern of suspicion that costs people their relationships and work. Careful therapy can loosen it.

Conceptual paper artwork: Small brass award disk low inside oversized paper frame; shadow rises above it.

N° 66

Low self-esteem

“I’m just not good enough. Everyone else is so put-together.”

A harsh inner voice that dismisses every success. Low self-esteem is linked to anxiety and depression, and it can change.

Conceptual paper artwork: Paper doorway stands gently ajar; loose silk ribbon rests across threshold.

N° 67

Vaginismus

“We’ve been married eight months. We still can’t.”

An involuntary tightening that makes intercourse painful or impossible. Common, rarely discussed, and treatable.

Conceptual paper artwork: Brass flywheel rests on engineering plan, movement suggested by pale offset arcs.

N° 68

Erectile dysfunction

“It happened once. Now I worry every time.”

Common, treatable, and sometimes an early warning of heart disease. Worth a confidential conversation.

Conceptual paper artwork: Folded Eid salwar kameez inside softly misregistered paper outlines that do not agree.

N° 69

Body dysmorphic disorder

“The new kameez looked perfect. I looked wrong in it.”

Hours lost to a flaw others cannot see. Cosmetic procedures rarely help; specific therapy does.

Conceptual paper artwork: Ceramic daal bowl at meeting of two woven runners, borders press without overlap.

N° 70

In-law conflict

“In my shashuri’s house, I can never do anything right.”

Joint family tension is part of many marriages in Bangladesh. When it wears down mood, sleep and the marriage, it deserves care.

Conceptual paper artwork: Single folded note on empty passenger seat; one crease opens toward unseen destination.

N° 71

Your first appointment

“What do I even say when I get there?”

What happens at a first consultation with a psychiatrist, and why you do not need the right words.

Conceptual paper artwork: Two cut-paper paths diverge around quiet centre, then meet at one open doorway.

N° 72

Psychiatrist or psychologist?

“Do I need a psychiatrist, or just someone to talk to?”

The difference between a psychiatrist, a psychologist and a counsellor, and why Dr. Tajreen is trained as both doctor and therapist.