Understanding yourself

What is said, and what is underneath.

Studies of the sentences people offer long before they can name what is happening. Starting points for reading, never a diagnosis.

Conceptual paper artwork: Blank accordion leaflet casts layered shadows resolving into one steady warm square.

N° 73

Psychiatric medicines: myths and facts

“Will I get addicted? Will it change who I am?”

Honest answers about psychiatric medication: what it does, what it does not, and how decisions are made together.

Conceptual paper artwork: Studio tally light behind frosted-paper screen inside an envelope-like frame.

N° 74

Confidentiality and privacy

“What if someone sees me at the clinic?”

Seeing a psychiatrist is private. Here is what confidentiality means, and how the practice protects it.

Conceptual paper artwork: Fine jute-thread bridge from factory timecard toward warm home-window cutout.

N° 75

Helping someone who won’t seek help

“I can see he’s struggling. He refuses to see anyone.”

How to talk to someone you love about their mental health, and what to do when they say no.

Conceptual paper artwork: Admission-coaching papers compressed into hourglass by a broad paper band.

N° 76

Exam pressure

“If I don’t get into medical, my life is over.”

SSC, HSC, O levels, admission tests: the pressure on Bangladeshi students is immense. Stress is normal; despair is not, and it needs help.

Conceptual paper artwork: Blue paper phone-window holds tiny view dots spilling beyond frame into ivory.

N° 77

Social media and mental health

“I’m on my phone till 3am. It’s giving burnout.”

Problematic social media use is rising among young people aged 11 to 15 in Europe, central Asia and Canada. Sleep, mood and self-worth can be won back.

Conceptual paper artwork: School notebook beneath blank message-panel tiles, edges stop before broad clean margin.

N° 78

Bullying and cyberbullying

“They made a group chat about me. Everyone’s in it.”

Bullying, at school or online, harms mental health, sometimes for years. Children deserve to be believed and protected.

Paper artwork: rain on a window beside an open red shutter, a steel tiffin carrier and loose papers on the sill

N° 79

Recurrent depression

“It’s back. I know its footsteps now.”

Depression that returns after months of feeling well. Knowing the early signs, and planning for them, can change what happens next.

Paper artwork: a laptop and scattered pages on a rooftop desk at night, papers lifting into the sky under a full moon

N° 80

Bipolar II disorder and hypomania

“I’m not ill. I’m finally getting things done.”

Spells of high energy and little sleep that feel productive, then long, heavy depressions. Bipolar II is often missed, and it is treatable.

Paper artwork: A Lalmatia fashion studio with a dress form and a fan of changing colour swatches

N° 81

Cyclothymia

“My moods change faster than the Dhaka sky.”

Years of ups and downs that never quite reach mania or major depression, but wear down work and relationships. It has a name, and it can be helped.

Paper artwork: a television and lamp in a dim sitting room, an empty sofa and a cushion on the floor

N° 82

Depression in men

“I’m not sad. I’m just angry all the time.”

In men, depression often shows as irritability, anger, overwork or drinking rather than tears. It is still depression, and it responds to care.

Paper artwork: a brass tray of coloured glass churi and sweets, a pregnant woman resting by a doorway beyond

N° 83

Depression in pregnancy

“I’m seven months pregnant and I feel nothing.”

Depression during pregnancy is common in Bangladesh and often hidden behind the celebrations. It can be treated, with care for mother and baby.

Paper artwork: a folded kantha on an empty wooden chair by a rainy window

N° 84

Grief after miscarriage

“We hadn’t even told Ammu yet.”

Miscarriage is common and its grief is real, for both partners. Anxiety and post-traumatic stress can follow, and support helps.

Paper artwork: a wall calendar with dates marked in red beside a black lawyer's gown on a hook

N° 85

Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD)

“One week a month, I become someone else.”

Severe mood changes in the days before a period that lift once it starts. PMDD is more than PMS, and it responds to treatment.

Paper artwork: a baby bottle and car key on a kitchen counter under a single lamp at night

N° 86

Depression in new fathers

“Everyone asks about the baby. No one asks me.”

About one in ten fathers becomes depressed around the birth of a child. It is often missed, and it often travels with the mother’s mood too.

Paper artwork: architectural drawings and an untouched cup of tea on a drafting table in late afternoon light

N° 87

Chronic fatigue syndrome (ME/CFS)

“I sleep ten hours and wake up exhausted.”

Exhaustion that rest does not fix and effort makes worse, sometimes days later. ME/CFS is a recognised illness, and careful management helps.

Paper artwork: a canvas field bag, sandals and a map by an open door

N° 88

Tiredness that won't lift

“Everyone just says, take some vitamins.”

Being tired all the time has many possible causes, from anaemia to sleep to depression. A careful assessment finds the real one instead of guessing.

Paper artwork: a brass bowl and marigold garlands on a rooftop ledge at dusk, city lights beyond

N° 89

Divorce and separation

“Talak is one word. The family has a thousand more.”

The end of a marriage is a loss, a move and a public story at once. Most people recover; some need help with the weight of it.

Paper artwork: a school backpack, cricket bat and ball between two apartment doors in morning light

N° 90

Children and divorce

“Weekdays at Ammu’s, Fridays at Abbu’s.”

Children whose parents separate are at somewhat higher risk of depression and anxiety. Keeping them out of the conflict between parents helps.

Paper artwork: a phone face down on a bedside table beside a glass of water and reading glasses

N° 91

After an affair

“I read the messages at two in the morning.”

Discovering an affair can bring shock, sleeplessness and depression. Couples therapy improves relationship satisfaction for many couples.

Paper artwork: A mother and daughter in Jatrabari looking at a child’s drawing of a father far away

N° 92

Living apart: migrant workers' families

“He calls from Riyadh every night. We have nothing left to say.”

When a husband works abroad, the wife at home carries the household, the in-laws and the loneliness. Her mental health deserves attention too.

Paper artwork: A scorched cooking pan and wooden spoon after a first monsoon attempt at bhuna

N° 93

The first year of marriage

“We’d met four times before the wedding.”

The first year joins two people and two families. Arguments are normal; learning to repair them is a skill that can be taught.

Paper artwork: a red wedding card and a folded medical file on a table

N° 94

Infertility and emotional distress

“At every biye, someone asks: any good news?”

Infertility brings grief, pressure and questions at every family event. In Bangladeshi studies, more than half of women in treatment had depression symptoms.

Paper artwork: Jannat standing apart from relatives at an Eid gathering in an Elephant Road flat

N° 95

Family pressure to marry

“Every dawat, the same question about my biye.”

When every family gathering turns into a question about marriage, the pressure can become anxiety. You can protect your peace without cutting off family.

Paper artwork: an old wooden almirah with its doors ajar on a patterned tile floor in a high-ceilinged room

N° 96

Family conflict after a parent's death

“Abba’s flat. Four siblings. Nobody speaks now.”

A parent’s death can split siblings over property and old wounds. The grief underneath often needs as much attention as the dispute.